The petals are falling off the Blackberry blossoms as the fruits begin to form.
Just as Yule marks the return of the light, Midsummer marks the return of the darkness, which will come first in the sweet flesh of summer fruit and then in the dryness of seed.
Its in this liminal time that I seek intimacy with dying things.
My friend Kathleen Maier speaks about how our culture doesn't teach us how to give death to things. So we carry our grief with us and it gets heavy and weighs us down. Something I know all too well as a watery person who has spent most of my life burying emotion deep and holding it tightly -- even when the phlegm of grief clogged my lungs, and my liver grew hot and congested from the anger I refused to feel, and the tension of trying to hold it all in made my blood pressure rise.
Kathleen says that she makes time to grieve each year at the Autumn Equinox, releasing sadness and pain, giving death to that which has been lost, so that she will not need to carry it into winter's darkness.
In the space that is opened, new seeds can be planted, waiting to be wakened by sun and rain in springtime. (Which, here on Vancouver Island, begins at Imbolc.)
For me, though, this year, Midsummer is the time to begin letting go of what I no longer want or need to give my life-force to, so I can reclaim it for the work I choose and the pleasure I desire in this world.
There is still enough light that I will not be overwhelmed by darkness -- remembering how pneumonia struck me last year at Samhain and at Yule when I waited until the nights were long and dark to begin turning inward. But the dying of the year has already begun, so I will not be swimming against the tide.
In the cool, dark of the woods, Ghost Pipe is beginning to emerge, opening the way to the world beneath the forest floor.
But at the edge of the field, the last wild Roses still bloom, calling me back home with their sweetness when I begin to dive too deep.
The same gate opens in both directions.
What will you give death to here in Midsummer's dying light, that it might return to the earth before its time for seeds to fall to the ground?
Thursday, June 27, 2013
Wednesday, June 26, 2013
The Stampede will go on! And so will "Condom on Your Cowboy" campaign!
The Stampede will go on! And so will the annual "Put a Condom on Your Cowboy" campaign!
We are proud to be working with our partners at the Calgary Coalition on HIV/AIDS (CCHA) again this year to help cowboys and cowgirls in our city to Stampede safe!
Watch for these posters going up around the city again as we gear up for Stampede. Let us know if you'd like some, or if you want to help with poster distribution.
Along with our partners at CCHA, we'll also be handing out "Love Kit" condom packs during Stampede weekends. (July 5/6 and July 12/13)
We're looking for volunteers to join us for distributing these condom packs at various locations around the city. If you're interested in throwing on a cowboy hat and promoting condom use to stampede go-ers, please e-mail Emily at eophus@calgarysexualhealth.ca for more info.
Happy Stampede everyone! We hope you can all get out there and enjoy this AMAZING city!
We are proud to be working with our partners at the Calgary Coalition on HIV/AIDS (CCHA) again this year to help cowboys and cowgirls in our city to Stampede safe!
Watch for these posters going up around the city again as we gear up for Stampede. Let us know if you'd like some, or if you want to help with poster distribution.
Along with our partners at CCHA, we'll also be handing out "Love Kit" condom packs during Stampede weekends. (July 5/6 and July 12/13)
We're looking for volunteers to join us for distributing these condom packs at various locations around the city. If you're interested in throwing on a cowboy hat and promoting condom use to stampede go-ers, please e-mail Emily at eophus@calgarysexualhealth.ca for more info.
Happy Stampede everyone! We hope you can all get out there and enjoy this AMAZING city!
Friday, June 21, 2013
Calgary GSA Network: Summer Break from Roundtable Meetings
With the end of the school year, the Calgary Gay Straight Alliance (GSA) Network will be taking a break from Roundtable Meetings over the summer.
Finding Support Over the Summer
Our last meeting before the summer break had been scheduled for June 20th, but given the extreme flooding emergencies in Calgary and area we decided to cancel the meeting. We sincerely apologize for any inconvenience!
Contact our team member Nick Moore at: nmoore@calgarysexualhealth.ca
Other resources to check out:
We will be in touch regarding the next meeting later this summer in preparation for Pride and getting ramped up for the next school year.
Looking Back at a Great Year
Finding Support Over the Summer
Our last meeting before the summer break had been scheduled for June 20th, but given the extreme flooding emergencies in Calgary and area we decided to cancel the meeting. We sincerely apologize for any inconvenience!
This meeting was going to be our "Summer Send-Off" meeting, with information and resources for finding community and things to do during the summer months outside of your schools. We encourage you to please continue to connect with us with any questions and we can point you to resources in the city.
Contact our team member Nick Moore at: nmoore@calgarysexualhealth.ca
Other resources to check out:
- Calgary GSA Network: https://www.facebook.com/groups/289834511050042/
- Calgary Outlink: http://calgaryoutlink.ca/
We will be in touch regarding the next meeting later this summer in preparation for Pride and getting ramped up for the next school year.
Looking Back at a Great Year
In the meantime, we want to thank everyone for a great school year with the Calgary GSA Network!
We marked our one year anniversary and in that time our network has really grown! Check this previous post for our look back at the first year of the GSA network.
And here's some things from the year that a few of our GSA members wanted to share:
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| Sir Winston Churchill's GSA held thrift sales, bake sales and other activities - and donated $160 to CSHC! Thank you!! |
Congratulations to all our GSA Network friends on a great year! Have a wonderful summer!
Tuesday, June 11, 2013
An Evening with Internationally Renowed Speaker: Dr. Shirley Steinberg
Dr. Steinberg is the Director and Chair of The Werklund Foundation Centre for Youth Leadership in Education, and a Professor of Youth Studies at the University of Calgary. She is the author and editor of many books in critical pedagogy, urban and youth culture, and cultural studies.
Dr. Steinberg’s work focuses on the cultural/social/educational development of youth. She is concerned with how society views young people, and her work creates an environment in which youth are viewed as positive democratic agents within society. The co-founder of the Paulo and Nita Freire International Project for Critical Pedagogy, she is the organizer of The Critical Pedagogical Congress.
She is committed to a global community of transformative educators and community workers engaged in radical love, social justice, and the situating of power within social and cultural contexts.
Dr. Steinberg's keynote address will follow our brief Annual General Meeting. Come celebrate a year of great successes, new initiatives, and community impact.
Wednesday, June 19, 2013
Venue 1008 (located at 1008 – 14 Street SE)
6:00 pm Reception
6:30 pm Annual General Meeting
7:00 pm Guest Speaker - Dr. Shirley Steinberg
Guests will enjoy substantial appetizers and refreshments. This is a free event - please RSVP as below.
Please RSVP by Wednesday, June 12
at http://cshc-agm2013.eventbrite.ca or call 403-283-5580 ext: 316
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